Fix a debug message

This will help reduce useless process wakeups

* Don't find playlist
* Fix a few bugs in notification plugins

Todo: find a way to get rid of this mostly redundant code and rewrite the XOSD plugin

Don't remove AC_PROG_CPP our headerfile and library checking macros depend on it. Unbreak configure.ac

* various improvements to our Apple Remote bindings by the original author of the inofficial API, Martin Kahr (martin at his surname.com)

I'm far from being sure this is the right thing to do, but it allows MMSH to work correctly (it requests some data while the server is closing connection)

Do not search for playlist

Convert the new libvlc API (so, the one that is in src/control) not to use the old libVLC API (the one that is in libvlc.c, er, no, was... ah... maybe it's the internal one... err .... well, it's about vlc for sure...)

* instances creation/deletion stuff to libvlc-common.c
* implementation of the old libvlc API to libvlc.c

vlc_t => libvlc_int_t