activex: fix recursive plugin release, which may cause explorer to crash and opens activex to security exploit as detected by Ricardo Narvaja from Core Security Technologies

fspanel.m:
    - faster hiding of the curser when the panel vanishes [19133]
    - smoother fading [20660]

vout.m:
    - avoid white flashs (10.4+ only)

Note that "hey, it doesn't appear with Float-on-top" isn't fixed yet.

* modules/video_filter/deinterlace.c: backport [22579], use field order (top/bottom) for correct bob/linear deinterlacing.

* modernise the Apple Remote architecture by back-porting an adapted trunk version. This fixes the AR support on Tiger and provides a couple of new features (skipping, better volume control, easy to find fullscreen-mode-toggle). additionally, fixed a nasty bug which prevented proper toggling of the fullscreen mode.

* "%i objekt i spellistan" as translation for "No items in the playlist" may trigger unexpected UI strings on OSX. I've removed that translation for now, but we should get a correct translation for the release. Fixes #1234