- Link builtins with libvlc instead of vlc
  (seems to fix shared libvlc on Win32)

* Collect more meta-information in id3

* changed the button order in DIALOG_YES_NO_CANCEL. (the order is now: Cancel, No, Yes; which is more Mac-like IMO, but feel free to change it again)

Note to zorglub: please test changes before commiting.

Add some timing to playlist 

  so that it is cleanly built before all modules
  (step toward buildable shared libvlc on Win32)
- Don't build position dependant code when building shared libvlc
  (that was a big waste of time)
- Link builtin modules with vlc rather than libvlc

- Hopefully the same on Darwin

!!! BIG FAT WARNING !!!
On architectures where you need to resolve all symbols when
linking a shared library, libvlc must be built before the plugins, so
that they can resolve symbols from the libvlc API. Also, the "builtins"
must be built before libvlc (regardless of the architecture or use of
shared libvlc). However, our build system currently builds all modules,
whether builtins or plugins, then libvlc and then vlc.

Obviously, we could swap the build orders, so that libvlc gets built
before modules/ but that will only work if there is no buitins modules.
I'm not too keen on the idea of recursing twice within the modules/
subdirectories (once for builtins, and once for plugins). Until the
issue is settled, here is how to build and test the shared libvlc on
Win32:

1/ run configure with --enable-shared-libvlc
2/ build all built-in modules (or disable them all) one by one,
3/ make libvlc.dll
4/ make

tested with 
./vlc --sub-filter rss --rss-urls "http://www.lefigaro.fr/rss/figaro_une.xml|http://newsrss.bbc.co.uk/rss/newsonline_world_edition/front_page/rss.xml" --rss-length 40 --rss-size 15 --rss-images --rss-speed 1000 <video>