* add dlm_wait_for_node_death function to be used after receiving a network
  error.  this will wait for the given timeout to allow the heartbeat
  callbacks to update the domain map.  without this, some paths may spin
  and consume enough cpu that the heartbeat gets starved and never updates.
Signed-off-by: Kurt Hackel <kurt.hackel@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Mark Fasheh <mark.fasheh@oracle.com>