Fix panic on lip and cable pull

Symptoms: Panic on lip or cable pull

Cause: Use after free of nlp in lpfc_nlp_remove()

Fix: Do not make FC transport calls after a node is removed. Transport
calls are disabled by ignoring the initial delete transition.
Signed-off-by: James Smart <James.Smart@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>