If recovery failed or we are in recovery only overwrite the state
if we are going to terminate the session or if we logged back in.

STOP_CONN_SUSPEND and conn_cnt are not used. We only support
a single connection session ATM, so cleanup that code while
we are working around it.
Signed-off-by: Mike Christie <michaelc@cs.wisc.edu>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>